Can you handle the truth?
In relationships, do men want a woman who can handle and dish out the truth, or do they really prefer an emotionally vulnerable women??OK....so I am asking this question because not for the first time i have been accused of being too masculine. Yup, me. Not physically, mind you, but emotionally. I mean I am the stereotypical girly girl.... I get my manicures and pedicures twice a month and my hair styled every other week as well. I wear my MAC lip-gloss daily as well as my eyeliner..and i will FIGHT you for that last pair of Gucci stilettos in a size 7.
I have never met a pencil skirt i didn't love. So how is it I am accused of being masculine?? It is because I am in touch and in total control of my emotions...(well, at least 3 weeks out of the month)... and because I LIKE the truth. No....like....I really do. A lot of women say they want the truth, but in reality they don't. I require the real, 100%, this might hurt you, unedited version of the truth.
Your opinion or your thoughts on where this relationship may or may not be going DOES matter to me...Now understand...if i cut off our friendship/relationship, and choose to never speak to you again it doesn't mean my feelings are hurt...it simply means that I probably wasn't completely in favor of what you said and i simply decided that you weren't worth the time nor effort for me to explain or debate that i feel differently than you.... which makes me wonder....am I, the girliest girl i know.... and still too masculine? Or wait...could it be that I am just completely spoiled....I mean....maybe I am not as in touch with my feelings as I thought.....
I have never met a pencil skirt i didn't love. So how is it I am accused of being masculine?? It is because I am in touch and in total control of my emotions...(well, at least 3 weeks out of the month)... and because I LIKE the truth. No....like....I really do. A lot of women say they want the truth, but in reality they don't. I require the real, 100%, this might hurt you, unedited version of the truth.
Your opinion or your thoughts on where this relationship may or may not be going DOES matter to me...Now understand...if i cut off our friendship/relationship, and choose to never speak to you again it doesn't mean my feelings are hurt...it simply means that I probably wasn't completely in favor of what you said and i simply decided that you weren't worth the time nor effort for me to explain or debate that i feel differently than you.... which makes me wonder....am I, the girliest girl i know.... and still too masculine? Or wait...could it be that I am just completely spoiled....I mean....maybe I am not as in touch with my feelings as I thought.....
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